By stepping your game up a little, and practicing some confidence enhancing techniques, you are already well on your way there – there is nothing that a lot of women find more attractive than a man who is confident (not too confident!) in himself, sexually as well as otherwise sweet seductions.

A ’strong’ man needs approval from no-one. He is confident in his convictions and knows when to back away without losing face. If you can remain cool and unruffled in the face of failure you will have an advantage not many other men have, because many will turn tail at the first sign of rejection, and some women have programmed themselves to play ‘hard to get’ without even trying subliminal seduction.

Don’t forget, a brave man will not live forever, but a cautious one will not live at all!

Look at yourself. What are your attractive features? Everyone has at least three.

You need to learn how to use what you have to your advantage, instead of wishing you had a better body or better looks, you need to focus on what you DO have, like your winning smile, great sense of humor, or full head of hair. The lesson here is – take what you DO have and make it work for you!

You have to learn to turn off your “critical factor” and look at yourself in the best light possible. Bring your most attractive features to the forefront and use that to your advantage. This can be the critical difference between a successful seduction and a harsh rejection.

After you have pegged down your greatest assets, its time to bring them to the forefront and use them to seduce the girl you desire. While interacting with her, draw attention to them. Smile at her, make strong eye contact, throw out a joke or two – whatever you’ve determined are your most seductive attributes, use them!